Deciding to liveaboard is a bit like a marriage to a new lifestyle. Tamaha enchanted us from day one and we evolved in ways we really didn’t expect. While most of our metamorphosis and “aha” moments came via lessons learned the hard way – through mistakes and experience – I’m hoping that some of you may benefit from hindsight as I share our Liveaboard Vows over the next few days.
Vow #1 – I promise to take care of me
We cannot afford to get ill. We rely quite heavily on one another to keep things ticking over and working smoothly. When one of us is ill, everything is impacted including our ability to liveaboard Tamaha. That’s not so bad while we still have relatives living 50 miles away but what if it happens when we are cruising miles off the coast of anywhere?
As I mentioned yesterday in celebrate the small things, we moved aboard in the cold, dark depths of January. Kevin was so fired up he just put on an extra layer and worked every hour, in all weather conditions, to get Tamaha ship shape.
When he started coughing, I urged him to see a doctor, but as we were not registered with a local GP (see my post on registering for local services) he kept putting it off and carried on working. The cough got worse and worse. He couldn’t sleep and was hardly eating. When he had torn the muscles in his stomach from coughing and was struggling to breathe, he agreed to me calling an ambulance.
A ten day stint in hospital followed a diagnosis of pneumonia. A two week recuperation period at my mother-in-law’s was next, followed by even more weeks of slowly easing back to full health. I hadn’t been such a health angel myself and while Kevin was in hospital I struggled to manage the daily chores aboard Tamaha due to a chest infection.
The shock and pure awfulness of this episode quickly brought home the need to look after ourselves better. We learned to work with, instead of fighting against, mother nature. Winter has now become a time for us to acknowledge our achievements and plan for the future – a time to slow down and work to the rhythm of the season.
The first vow we made to our liveaboard lifestyle was, “I promise to take care of me”. We stopped smoking and working outside in crazy, extreme temperatures. We take care to ensure that below decks is ALWAYS warm and dry – condensation is kept to the minimum. We follow a healthy diet and acknowledge instead of ignore our food intolerances. We get an annual flu jab and rest when we don’t feel great. I’m pleased to say that we both cruised through this last winter with nothing worse than a head cold and a few extra winter pounds.
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